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 It has been suggested to me that the determining factor by us women on being attracted to a man is the way they dress.  That for instance a survey carried here in one UK poll showed that women were attracted to men who dressed in trainers but went for men who dressed in suits... How true is this?  Fellow members - help me out with this....What is the key main thing that a woman would notice on a man physically at first site that may determine her reaction being that of a welcome as opposed to her bidding him farewell?

haha!... can't wait for the women to reply here...lol

SB- fantasy is the key thing here..and well done when somethings can be seen clear. sometimes for u to go for the suits its good to imagine what the same would like in trainers outfits... the annalysis is based on the physique en structure from the head to the toe...

If i may speak for myself, the first thing i notice about men are their eyes and thighs, then the suits and trainers will follow. Then there is the ever so determining factor- the shoes!!

just like me I go for eyes ass then all that other stuff but like Bflorrie the shoes the shoes!!!!

what of the mouth? come on...

 

It is very hard to dertmine what attracts women to men and a woman will never chose what king of man she will be attracted to. It all depends on the sub conscious mind and the behaviour of the man. You will always see a woman saying that she will never go out with a certain kind of man and the next day she will be all over him. To some extent, what a man wears matters but it will not determine the final outcome.

Of course khumalo u always have a pic of wat kind of guy u are attracted but in most cases u may end up falling for someone totally different because there are pple that u may meet thru friends or under different circumstances who dont have those particulars u want but because u get tyme to get to know them u may fall for other stuff...but the question Sb posed was wat cathes the eye like if i was walking down the street and i saw a guy wat wld make me turn around .........wat wld catch my eye.......

 

Deenash the mouth for me is not that important as long as the teeth are all there and not messed up and the breath is good am fine ...though i guess lips do it for some pple have this friend who doesnt like datin white guys coz they got small lips hehehehe

Since when did a craw start having a teeth? JOKE

Oloya u got jokes ehhh kale gwe bera bwotyo

oops! u forgot to translate k_raw! .  In ma language "bwotyo" would mean something else.. something beneath!.

LOL @DeeNash was just tryin out ma rusty luganda 

direct translation  Be like that

K-raw,

Now that you mentioned it. don't think i have ever known a man with nice lips. Seriously. (No disrespect to those i know)

bflorrie:

If i may speak for myself, the first thing i notice about men are their eyes and thighs, then the suits and trainers will follow. Then there is the ever so determining factor- the shoes!!

Cheeky gals! How do u notice the thighs be4 the suit?

Depends with what he is putting on! sme clothes are kinda light u can see thru em

I didnt say nothin about thighs but if he is wearing jeans then i guess u wld see the thighs but those wld have to be some tight assed jeans and am not sure i want a guy wearing jeans that tight LOL

and when i said ass it better not be flat and it cant be bigger than mine hehehehehe .....Bflorrie if u like guys with thighs date footballers they have nice thighs and asses LOL.....as for lips africans guys usually have nice lips only problem here is that when its cold it cracks thier lips and they have something against  using lipbalm

 

Ah Bflorrie - so you too would follow suit with those of here in the UK who felt the feet attire featured greatly as a determinant.

Thank you all of you that have elaborated on what makes you tick at first sight of a male in visual.

I'd go for scent/smell.  I don't know - maybe I have residue from dog's genes, but the scent of a man is what would determine if I stop to check out the physique let alone the eyes, lips and teeth - in that order.  Shoes/clothes don't feature greatly as much depends where I run into the guy!

As much as I have wanted to comment on this topic; I have decided to take the 5th.  For those who may not know what I mean by taking the 5th, it means I'm not talking.  If  I talk I might incriminate yourself.  By taking the 5th means I'm not talking about it or commenting....................LOL

There you go!  You are spending too much time at the white house!

LOL@SB

Girl you have figured me out

Could the ladies kindly respond - this might influence my shopping spree at the beginning of next month...ahem!

Am not a lady but word of advice;

Just get wat fits and make you feel good, however expensive or encouraged to buy your outfit maybe be, as long as it looks like its not yours chances are not high that you will get a sensible lady.

Like Sb the scent or fume one wears has alot to say abt the the guy but first thing is the type of shoe, and how well that trouser brings out his thighs! but for me to look up twice its gotta be his fume! it will either mek me wanna take a closer look or not

When I am in my favourite suit everybody including Londoners who do not know me call me governor or mayor!

I think you have to have maximum smartness and fashionable which works!

Sniff sniff sniff!

 SB & Butterfly, don't u think u may miss the 'man of yo dream' i.e with the right scent when u have flu?

Kaks - are you about to tell us that one can have a flu 24/7?  I still stand by this first mode of selection - its not a race after all... Whats the point of getting all excited about some guy's shoes or whateva clothes he's wearing only for him to remove his shoes and the cheesy smell hits your nostrils or his BO is one to make you wish you had a flu?  Worse still to find he borrowed that fetching gear just to pull?  That's almost akeen to some brothers who go rent a flashy car, sometimes with rooky credit cards just to impress the sisters!

Nope give me ma nose to sniff Kaks!