speaking in tongues...

Ok. I'm back after what one sista in the members list has called my leave of abscence to be that of going awol.  Lemme just hope I'm not going to be taken to task over that - sometimes, its refreshing to listen to what others have to contribute than my old self harping on about all sorts..

The mere mention of speaking in tongues breaks me out into a cold sweat and this is seriously no joke.  I shall tell you more shortly but first allow me to put you through the wringer as to how I came to be on the verge of a cold sweat...

I'd planned to visit the museum with the gals a week back but deciding on which weekend to do it was fast proving to be like an obstacle course.  Soon as I had it penned down, something or other crept up like that annoying finger avator telling me no/no - try again!  The Friday prior to the planned event, I was telephoned by the Orthodontics giving me a ticking off cause ma daughter had yet again missed her appointment with them.  They instead arranged it for Saturday morning as a special favour of course!!!! Seriously the sacrifices we make for our kids!  Saturday was meant to facilitate me a lie-in before reality struck to rush off to stock up on household groceries.  Plus I'd hoped to make it an early hit at the museum to avoid the crowds.  Instead now I had to be legging it to the surgery waiting room to await whilst the orthodontic played elastic bands with ma daughter's teeth!  The saga with the orthodontic is too far fetched to even go into right now - so I'm gonna skip it...bottom line ma daughter had her elastics put in pending her braces.  Besides I rather get the feeling she'd not be very pleased with me to divulge all that took place.

We made our way over to the museum - spent what appeared to be ages walking around so much that my feet protested in a manner they are fast getting too comfortable with. In all, the day was enjoyable and as we trugged on back home, my comfort was that at least now entertaining the kids was over... little did I know...  Isn't it wonderful to have large families whereupon you can congregate and compare notes?  Well on this particular evening, finding a houseful of relatives was not exactly bringing me that warm glow... Plus there was that huge debate on mabira forest on one of the radio stations I'd started taking an interest listening to - well ma mom anyway does. They play music from way back that holds so much history and no doubt beautiful memories.  Luckily, ma relatives had to rush off not before long so I was afforded that rest I so badly longed for so that come Sunday morning I could be refreshed and ready to present maself in church.  I am trying my darnest to be spiritual you see...

Sunday morning greeted me with such warmth and beauty!  The sun was up, everything looked so cheerful outside that I rushed to get ready in ma best wares to go claim my place in one of the chuch pews and immerse myself into the day's gospel.  Unfortunately with the weather being so beautiful and warm, laziness also sets in that I found myself idly walking in late. There's something about wearing nice clothes and sandals with glasses shielding you from the world that causes me to just wander off into ma dream world whilst I walk that I forget the necessity of timekeeping...  I found the congregation not too far gone in the service and brazenly marched to claim a seat near the front.  This is so that I can see the projector with the lyrics of the songs  - otherwise, I'd be just miming along...  Everything was going along swimmingly well and I was enjoying the songs to the hilt joining in with the fervour of a new born that's just discovered they have lungs when the pause to welcome the gospel session commenced.  It was going to be led by a Russian-British priest.  See, I'm of the old school of christianity and usually a priest wearing a collar behaves the way I recall as a kid.  Solemn and all serious with the occasional mimicking of an imaginary awesome all-being. He started off calmly asking us to stand and join him in prayers.  Now I am normally ok with this - I just keep schtum while he does his bit and some others in the congregation who feel like sharing their prayers also say them in between pauses.  Heck - I did that myself last week praying for wisdom for those in office in Uganda to do the right thing by the nation as opposed to their bellies - so here I was fine.

But oh NO, he had to go and say the dreaded request... "join me in prayers, those of you that can allow the spirit in your hearts to speak in tongues, you are encouraged to do so"... and I'm like hell NO!!!!  I've seen too much of that stuff of persons praying in tongues to make me regress to ma childhood acting at school of spirit possessions - usually in tone with witchcraft...  I simply do not like or feel comfortable with this new-age idea of combining faiths!  I was relieved when this induced frenzy stopped, breathing a sigh of relief and questioning my sanity to have started attending church again.  The priest went on to give his gospel on the genesis human imperfection.  I actually liked his perspective on this albeit the graphics perhaps were OTT. Then just as he's coming to a close, a lady in the congregation stands up and requests we have a repeat dose of the prayer at the start of the gospel. I'm like WHERE IS THE EXIT? Some of those besides me must have sensed what I was planning.  They'd all formed a formidable circle either side of me, preventing that idea from realisation.

Then an idea came to me.  Since some of the congregation were high on speaking in tongues which perhaps only they could understand or not - could I start kuwemula in luganda because for sure nobody around me spoke nor understood luganda. Relax. I didn't give in to ma impulse to shock but meekly kept schtum, silently begging whichever spirit brought me to church to give me strength.

Published Tuesday, April 24, 2007 1:20 AM by Sugarbabes
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# re: speaking in tongues...@ Tuesday, April 24, 2007 3:47 AM

Bwahaha.

# re: speaking in tongues...@ Tuesday, April 24, 2007 11:11 PM

LOL now this is wat one shl read early morning u r makin me laugh so hard ppl may think am crazy seein as its five in da morning and normal pple are in bed ...thank God u didnt Kuwemula ugandans we are everywhere u never know...as for speakin in tongues ahhhh am a good old catholic we like our rituals long slow and solemn no drama there

by k_raw

# re: speaking in tongues...@ Wednesday, April 25, 2007 8:14 AM

Welcome back to the forum speaking in tongues and all

by Qsheeba

# re: speaking in tongues...@ Friday, April 27, 2007 3:00 AM

SB! wolololo! Anyway it depends with thekind of faith u got...take your time..especialy when in church.

by DeeNash

# re: speaking in tongues...@ Tuesday, May 01, 2007 11:29 AM

DN - I'm a fast learner and definitely keeping your advice in mind!  I've since learned I'm not alone in ma madness - some crazy person has just been introduced to me and I'm comparing notes not far off from my take...

K_raw - You do need a dose of this as much as a hole in the head! Lol with hindsight it is funny but believe me - it certainly wasn't whilst getting through it. I am now more keen to checking out who or what is going to be on the church menu before I venture there.

# re: speaking in tongues...@ Thursday, May 03, 2007 4:21 PM

Sugarbabes

Kuwemularing (and therefore in Luganda) while the others try to be oblivious (if they do understand)(and trying to keep a straight face!)? Hmmm, what a thought. You may have sown a seed...

Just for the reaction.

by Baaba

# re: speaking in tongues...@ Friday, May 04, 2007 9:55 AM

Baaba - are you by any chance up to start planting these seeds?  It amazes me that when people speak in tongues during such occasions, we are taught to accept it as being good and that it's the holy spirit at play... yet on other occasion/venue, the person would be deemed insane!

# re: speaking in tongues...@ Wednesday, May 09, 2007 9:06 PM

I have to blog about my trauma about ppl speaking in tongues

by Qsheeba

# re: speaking in tongues...@ Thursday, May 10, 2007 8:32 AM

About tongues -- has anyone translated the Ugandan National Anthem to a local lingo yet? The SAfrican anthem, for exple, is officially sung in any of 12 languages - how come the Ugdan is only in one, a foreign one at that!

# re: speaking in tongues...@ Friday, May 11, 2007 5:21 AM

Oh Uganda, Katonda akuwanirire

Tuteeka ebiseera byaffe ebijja mu mikono gyo

Twegaase era tulina eddembe

Ku lw'eddembe

Tujja kuyimirila ng'awamu

Oh Uganda ensi ey'eddembe

Okwagala kwaffe n'ebikolwa tubiwaayo

Ne balirwaana baafe bonna

Basobole ng'a okutweyunira

Mu bukakkamu n'emumukwano tujja kubeera wamu

Oh Uganda, ensi etuliisa

Olw'omusana n'ettaka eggimu kwetusiga

Ku lw'ettaka lyaffe lino eddungi

Tujja kuyimirila wo

Mu ngule y'ekkula lya Africa

# re: speaking in tongues...@ Friday, May 11, 2007 7:59 AM

Looks good, but does it actualy work with the tune?

# re: speaking in tongues...@ Saturday, May 12, 2007 6:47 AM

I did my bit 2 try & translate. Now it is only fair that some1 else (may be u) do the rhyming bit.

# re: speaking in tongues...@ Sunday, May 13, 2007 7:07 PM

actually ipiye Toni u had a point there why is it only in english i mean the kenyans atleast have it in english and swahili ok maybe ur translation though good cld be hard to put to the tune but i guess it cld be adjusted mmm kaks i see an upcoming project for ugpulse members lol trying to get some working translations in the different major languages in uganda

by k_raw

# re: speaking in tongues...@ Wednesday, May 16, 2007 10:59 AM

SB........I should paste someone's experience at church here but at the same time some people might be offended...what do you think?

by Milar

# re: speaking in tongues...@ Friday, May 18, 2007 4:24 AM

Thanks for asking Millar...let's hear another persons' take - can always remove it if its found to offend.  Members - be warned...

# re: speaking in tongues...@ Friday, May 18, 2007 3:12 PM

Here it is.....and remember it wasnt me, LOL!

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I went to church in Brooklyn, NY, on Saturday, February 07, 2004 with friends who know that God is my worst enemy. It was a small crowd where they all know each other. I told my friends to tell the priests to not bother me. It was a spiritual healing prayer to mark the end of one month fasting. It did not take long before these two women, evangelist Mary and another sister Catherine, who were standing on 'stage', started screaming like real…I will be kind and not insult them. Just as I was about to give sister Catherine credit for calming down and talking in a low quiet, nice voice, she started down the steps towards me and said, “Lets welcome sister Sophia”. She was about five feet away when she switched the microphone to her right hand and looked directly at me. I stared right back and almost said don’t 'flipping' touch me but the fierce _expression on my stone cold face stopped her on her tracks.

It was time for individual spiritual cleansing prayer when the pastor, Anthony, owner of the church and whose wife is my coworker, started signaling me. I shook my head and he acknowledged but the grin on his face was one of, you have to receive God in your life today. You have to get saved today. Whatever the 'flip' that means! Not that I really give a sh*t. I had observed enough and was not interested in having any stranger(s) scream at me with their hands on my head. I was also afraid of being perhaps hypnotized and brainwashed so that I begin to live the artificial life of a Christian where I would wake up in the middle of the night and start talking to myself like an idiot.  

After the service, sister Catherine asked why I did not accept the lord. I told her that I am a feminist and I find religion very gender biased, besides, I would not subscribe to a culture that restricts my sexual freedom. She asked me to be specific and I told her that if God wanted my body to be penetrable by only one man, he should have created it as such. I also expressed my disappointment with the biblical preconceived notion that women lack intellect, therefore, should not speak in church but ask questions and listen to the teachings of the Bible from their husbands.  

She interrupted by explaining that it was not lack of intellect but rather because some women were being unruly and disruptive in church. I asked her to guess what these women could have been unruly and disruptive about in church. I suggested that it was possible that these women were challenging ‘till death do us part’ and ‘no man shall have sex with another man’s wife’ because their sexual freedom was being stripped away. I added that these women knew that it would be a terrible emotional and sexual torture to be with one man for a long time and that at a certain age, a man’s ‘*****’ gets weak, he wouldn't be able to have erection anymore due to old age, and that would be time for a woman to seek a younger and stronger man. She responded with some nonsense of her own and I called it quits.

By this time, I wanted to split her skull open and replace her brain with half of mine. Instead, I told her not to waste her time with me because I am too old to be brainwashed so that I live my life for a man’s best interest. I concluded with: “I would not subscribe to any oppressive cultural norm that is clearly disadvantageous to a woman but advantageous to a man. I am a woman who cherishes her sexual freedom. Religion is not for me and I am not interested in listening to any bullshit about God (men) and his stupid words.

Sophia.

PS: Note that I did not paste the introduction which would have otherwise given more highlight why the above outburst...it was too er...uum...but can always mail it to whoever wants to know how the writter came up with the above theory! Oh and this lady is always open to any questions if any.

by Milar

# re: speaking in tongues...@ Saturday, May 19, 2007 6:31 PM

Interesting take on religion....cant agree or disagree for me its all about choice if a person is a believer or non beliver thats really up to them as long as they can live with their choice.I think in this day and age most pple have come to a point where by they find it necessary to differentiate between religion and God. Life is so chaotic that people though disillusioned by religion still stick to the rituals because the alternative leaves them alone and most people need to know that there is something beyond this life. some pple need all the church antics for their lives to make sense and who can blame them?

Milar this is besides the point but i still gotta ask is Sophia white or black i wld be suprised if she was black coz we (black women)however much of a pagan or athiest one is we are very careful about how we formulate it or maybe its just me (its like even if we dont believe we dare not say it in a bad way coz God forbid he may hear us a ...contradiction in itself LOL)

by k_raw

# re: speaking in tongues...@ Tuesday, May 22, 2007 11:40 AM

Sophia is very black and Ugandan but with Canadian citizenship and working in the USA!  I also suspect that some of you have met her on several Ugandan discussion boards.

by Milar

# re: speaking in tongues...@ Thursday, May 24, 2007 6:36 PM

mmmm interesting go figure

by k_raw

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