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I mean to be better but i nevr do....am always making plans of how good am gonna be on the next course how hard am going to study but nope .....so here I am sunday and am on campo writting a paper we have a presentaion next week in marketing and well am here on Ugpulse coz ma mind has slowed down and ai need to chill

 so far the weekend has been good ma lill sis is here visitng and she gonna be with me for two weeks so ive been showing her the town.....the weather si so nice we have all taken out our skirts and shorts  and shirked the big winter jackets...even urs truly is doin a dress every now and then....yesterday we has a barbeque way tooo much food  will try and post some pics of that.......this nice weather is bad it makes pple crazy all round down all u see r couples couples couples holding hands and the rest of us singles are left thinkin please NO PDA get a room please....so anyway ive been single way too long thing to do for the summer get me a Bf coz pple r begining to wonder hahahahahah ok break over will be back later.

puss och kram

last week was easter and like a fool i didnt plan anything...all ma other usless brothers and sisters sold me out and went home for easter ....and ma friends all decided to disappear so it was just me and Bea man our building was quiet......called home and ma mum was cooking up a storm and i missed it.....me and ma crazy siblings have just discovered that it dont matter how mucl older we get as soon as we walk into ma paros place we regress and act like we did when we were younger and we all lived at home......guess its tru wat they say u are always ur parents baby .........

so was so bored deciced to do a film marathon

went thru 300 ....good fighting scenes

then watched x men 3 love the special effecst

then watched bridge to tarebithia...read this book as a kid and decided the film wld be worth it only i had forgotten how sad the book was and well the film was good but still sad

decided to watch a bollywood one next .....am crazy about these films and openly in love with Sharukhan hehhehe yepp and am not ashamed ,,,,,i mean this guy has been my all time favo bollywood actor there is just something about him mmm must be the crying...decided to watch an old film Kuch kuch hota hai man....after three hours of this film cld take more movie so i called it a night

sunday church nice service ....then home and more films

Man this isnt gonna make it to the weekly update need to get it outta ma system asap

am so tired of all these African guys ( exchange students mainly from west african)  in my uni thinking that they can talk to you any how and then if u say something back they start goin on and on about you coming to Europe and acting like a white….am like wat kind of crap is that…..

Anyway today am minding my own bizness and this guy whom I know….barely..we have only had like one or two conversations which consisted of him hitting on me and me politely declining anyway that was a year ago..... me and him haven’t exchanged any more than two wordssince  then and today we are hanging round the halls when he walks up ......everyone says hellos small talk and as soon as we r all leaving he calls me back like he had something urgent he gotta say everyone walks off and I walk back to see what he wants to say and this is what was urgent …… ” Carol I think now you are getting to fat.” (read with thick west african accent) Ma jaw drops …am not a skinny gal never have been am chubby Dah..... I am not one of those weight watchers I don’t diet I eat what I want…am lazy so I hardly work out but I have ma limits and I know I look good  (yeah *** I do) and yeah I have put on some weight (mind u hips and ass) but this is all besides the point if anyone of ma friends had told me this well and good (ma friends are brutally honest if it needs to be said they will say it)

what bugged me was that this guy whom I hardly know who knows jack *** about me is announcing to me that am getting too fat and then looking at me waiting for something all I was thinking was no he didn’t and later what is he waiting for? applause an explanation ? shall we discuss me fatness ? what ? It was amusing in a way …..in the end all I said was uhhhmmm ok and I started to walk away and he was like no no blah blah bla and he is still going on about it I just said well that’s life and walked on

Later I got a phone call and he is apologising saying he didn’t mean it to be an insult or he didn’t say it to hurt me and am like u know wat no big deal its nuffin and that was that

I wasn’t pissed or anything……. am not about to go bulimic or anorexic am just wondering where he gates the  nerve to talk to me like he knows me ….

And this is not the first time another time this African guy also came up to me same situation we don’t really know each other just hi and bye he comes up after we haven’t seen each other for a while and he goes u look better…..am thinking in ma head better than what ????? He goes on u look better ur not as big as before (well i was kinda laughnin  in ma head coz i had just gained like 5 kilos over the hols )and he looks happy I guess in his mind that was a compliment I just went away laughing and to this day every time I see him I smile to ma self

This is not ma only issue with them …ma uni has limited number of African chics so the take it upon themselves to hit on every single one if one refuses they move to the next one until they have been thru the rounds ….and the assumption that u turn them down coz u want a white guy not due to their poor courting methods  and they always justify it by sayin in Africa u wldnt act like that and am thinking wat Africa in Uganda were I come from if a guy I don’t know approached me and wanted to come visit me at ma house that wld be out of the question......so why shld i invite u to ma house or even worse they just sho up at ur door and u shld just be welcoming like wat am i supposed to say yes to everyone how cheap am i supposed to be…..and the assumption that you will have to cook for them several pple keep asking me "wat r u cooking today ?" followed by "I was thinking I cld visit u and u cld cook for me" am always wondering are they for real I usually make a joke of it that I don’t cook ( I can cook and am pretty good at it ask anyone) i just wanna avoid  the debatt of wat will you do when u get married and ur kids blahh blaah blaahhh apparently all women aspire to marry and cook for their men and have kids ahhhhhhh

Am just ranting and raving need to get it all outta ma system much as I wanna hate there are some good guys in the bunch and they shldnt take the heat for a few morons

ps now i gotta post a picture of ma self so pple dont think am some fatty boom boom hahahaha

studyin all week or pretending to be.....had a presentation thursday, think it went well, will have to wait until the results come out,,,,

friday had an exam think i aced that NOT......

saturday decided that we needed to shake things up...first we decided we had to barbeque ......simple if u think about it but me and ma friend never do simple things....we decided we needed to barbeque at ma friends new apartment..... she lives on the top floor and u r not allowed to barbeque from ur balcony with a charcoal grill .....first things first we didnt even have a chacoal grill (most of us live in student apartmensts and someone always has a grill u can borrow and this friend doesnt live in a student apartment)....so we set off to buy a new grill ofcourse the electric grills we finished so we bought a charcoal one and in true snob form we opted for the advanced one coz it looked impressive on da pic .....when we get home we take it out of the box and the damn thing has like thousands of small parts mbu we have to assemble it ....man it took the longest part of an hour but we did it and lit it and started with the chicken.....(chicken being the main ingredience coz well half the pple comin a moslems that rules out the pork and some dont eat meat .....too compicated so we opted for chicken) we over did it with the snacks as well thinkin that pple may starve waitin for the BBQ NOt.....the neigbour starts bitchin about the smoke gettin in his house we ignore him.......ma friend is from Srilanka and this gal kan spice you a chicken mmmmmm..... drinks were flowin  me was tossin down ma regular vodka lime and sprite like there was no tomorrow (bear with me hadnt drunk since ma BD which was at the begining of feb hehehe) .....anyway chicken was eaten drink was drunk time to get down to the club pub watever we have only one car and well we did it in shifts (its only like 5 minutes to town) first we were goin to the student pub ( we have a pub and club and after exams its always packed) only problem was we had some pple who dont attend our uni so we gotta get them in as guests and well just our luck this night they were only takin in 200 guests and by the tyme we got there that quota was already filled so we decide to head on to town and go to the usual place ,,,,,,only its saturday which is snob nite at that place bad music bad crowd and u pay thru the teeth we pay go in and only stayed for one hour it was just to boring we decided to call it a nite went home and hit ma bed .....sunday 11 00 church matabi (palm sunday) nice sermon home again at 1210 hit bed and slept off ma hangover......the perfect blend of life....Work Play God and Sleep........It was a nice week

ps  screening ma calls keep gettin fon calls from the bad date guy mmmmmmm not good need to squash that